I love the idea of bucket lists, I really do. Anytime I see one of those posts listing the “30 Things To Do Before Turning 30” or “10 Places to Visit Before You Die” I’m tempted to make my own. I am nothing if not goal oriented, and I’m confident that if I made a list I would strategically allocate vacation days and funds until I had carefully curated Instagram posts documenting each and every item. It would be fun. I would see lots of places I had always wanted to visit. But what about all those places I hadn’t yet dreamed of?
You see, the problem with bucket lists is that they don’t leave room for spontaneity or unexpected detours in our lives. They don’t factor in the many google image searches I’ve done that eventually led to flight purchases. They don’t take into account the fact that my dream of living and working in Europe, accidentally led me to Chile.
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